“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” – Ephesians 4:32
The most important reason to be kind to others is to follow the commandments of Christ. We know that everything God tells us to do is for our own benefit. Following God’s way will bring us success and joy in the long run.
Part I discussed that ego can cause us to not be kind. Part II discussed that self-righteousnes can cause us to not be kind. Part III talked about other human limits which may cause us to be unkind. Part IV explored who we should be kind to. Today we will look at some ways we can be unkind and some ways we can be kind.
What are some ways we are unkind.
There may be innumerable ways. Being too harsh. Not showing respect. Not showing love. Saying things that dimmish others. Reminding other of the weaknesses a person has. Similarly, contributing to rumors about another person that will dimmish that persons reputation
What are some ways we can be kind.
Our relationship with God will determine our inward attitude, which then determines our outward actions and behaviors. When we want to obey God by being truly kind, it will manifest in our actions.
Most of the time, kindness can be provided in simple actions.
Kind words. It’s astonishing how much good kind words can do. Do you remember kind words a family member or a friend spoke to you? Maybe the encouragement was all you need to get through the day or the week, or to realize that there are many wonderful characteristics that you have. Maybe those kind words have helped you have confidence in yourself, pursue your dreams, a career, or an activity you truly enjoy.
Kindness may be a smile, a nod, a handshake, a hug.
Think of all the ways you can give kindness.
Conclusion:
Being unkind can do great damage. To you. To your family. To your friends. To co-workers. To others around you.
Practicing kindness is a discipline we can all exercise. The more you practice something, the better you get at it. You will be greatly rewarded.
God has been kind to you. You can show your love to God by being kind to others.